Oh my god, you guys. Yesterday was one month exactly until the wedding. I really can’t believe it! It’s hard to believe that exactly one month from today, it will all be over. I can really feel now how the wedding is just one fleeting day that flies by. Whew.
We’ve now reached the point in the do-it-yourself wedding with all the doing. All of those little details on my to-do list are now due, or overdue, as the case may be. Always the listmaker, I now not only have the checklist on The Knot, I also have another, more detailed list on Word. And, to top it all off, I’ve started keeping a daily checklist on my phone of wedding stuff that needs to get done. This is crazy, guys.
Anyway, this is my last monthly planning update. So, it will be the longest and most complicated. Here’s what I’ve gotten done (more or less) since the last one:
- Order guest book: This is done! Just waiting for it to come in the mail.
- Schedule vendor meetings: I’ve now met with the videographer and venue. I have a meeting scheduled for this week with the DJ. All that is left is to meet with the caterer and fill out the info sheet for the photographer.
- Have my first dress fitting: The second fitting is this week!
- Buy bridal party gifts: They are sitting in wedding storage, AKA our spare room, as we speak. I love them!
- Shopping day: This was extremely satisfying, even though it didn’t happen all at once like I had planned.
- Finish planning open house: I haven’t finished planning so much as turned it over completely to my parents. It felt great to let go of it.
- Make table numbers: I’ve created them all; they just need to be printed. I’ve got to find a place where I can print 5×7 cards.
There is probably too much still left to do to list here, but I’ll try my best to condense it down. Here’s most of what has to get done before the wedding:
- Buy stuff: Tablecloths, plates, cups, drinks, centerpiece supplies, table number holders, and probably some other things I’m not thinking of right now.
- Finalize details with vendors: Go over the small details with the caterer and day of coordinator and create a ceremony guide for the photographer and videographer.
- Make a floor plan and assign seating: Also, the escort cards need to be filled out.
- Print the programs and table numbers.
- Get the welcome bags ready: I have to buy the supplies and bags and create and print the inserts.
- Order the flowers: And buy bouquet-making supplies.
- Get the marriage license: While we’re at the county clerk’s office, make sure that everything is set for Ilana to officiate.
- Make a day-of schedule.
- Wedding Beauty: Finalize makeup, get my hair cut, make a waxing appointment, and figure out details for nails that weekend.
- Every other small detail that is too tedious to list here.
I’m confident I can do this. Of course, I still need to pay bills, go grocery shopping, make dinner, and not suck at my job in the meantime. Plus, I have to take some continuing ed classes for my social work license renewal before the wedding. Procrastination will always come back to bite you later, kids. Take it from me.
No doubt, I will be busy this month. But that is actually probably a good thing because it will make the time fly by. Before we know it, the day will be here, and I’ll be someone’s wife. Now, to go take some deep breaths before I hyperventilate…